Hello!I'm in need of some insight with a beautiful Sagittarius man please...
We met about 3 months ago. He works at an upscale Salsa club that I go to with my friends. He's a retired Navy man and works there as lead of the security team (it's near SF guys... a lot of security required Hehehe).
So he had approached me with small talk and flirting with me a few times. We got to talking, exchanged numbers... And a couple of weekends ago he made it very clear that he likes me. He walked me to the car, held my hand, told me how "gorgeous I looked", and that he would call to go have dinner, etc., etc.... I sent enough signals to show him that I, too, like him but I didn't jump into his arms/bed, etc... not my style.
He told me he'd be at the base the next couple of weeks. So I didn't see him until last night. We had only exchanged a few flirty texts over the past couple of weeks that he was at base... So last night, I show up (looking amazing, by the way! And he is totally giving me the cold shoulder! He came to me only a couple of times early in the eve with just some small talk but I did see him following my every move! Then I see him kissing with a security gal who was all over him!! UGH!! MEN!!! So after that, I allowed myself to get closer with this guy and we danced and spent the rest of the eve together, at which he frowned!! His girls ended up leaving the party and he did nothing but follow me&my new friend around in a very "inconspicuous" way (so he thought)... and even asked one of my friends what was up with me and the guy!! ...The nerve!! His female "friend" appeared very clingy to which he looked a bit annoyed but he played along! Her style is more of the show off, a bit on the vulgar side. I on the other hand prefer the more ellegant/classy kind of sexy (dress not too short, not too tight lol) and my behaviour is the same way. Never kissed with anyone at the club nor left with anyone other than the friends I came with. We've never even seen eachother outside the club before but the chemestry is enormous!!
I am tempted to write to him and tell him that since he apparently has someone now, that he shouldn't mind me getting close with someone.
I really like this guy! I don't want him to think that there's anything between me and the guy I was dancing with last night. He saw me leave by my self, but we didn't say bye or talk after he saw me dancing salsa. The man was an amazing dancer and I dance well too so we hit it off on the dance floor. I was a bit taken back by my guy's kissing with this girl so we danced a bit provocatively (shame) people were watching us dance but nothing else happened - it was just one of those "Dirty Dancing" movie moments. I usually don't dance with the same guy more than once or twice as to not lead anyone on, except for my Sag! He can dance with me whenever he wants to! So me dancing with this other guy most of the eve. was not my usual behaviour, but my pride was a bit hurt so I decided to show my Sag what he was missing!! I hope I didn't kill any possibilities with him with my reaction. BTW he knows I saw them kissing - I made eye contact with him right at that moment, then turned around and went about my business (having fun).
What would help me get my Sag to fall for me? Reach out to him and explain why I danced like that with the guy? Should I just let him be until I see him next weekend? I know he likes me better than that girl he was kissing! HEHE!!
Thanks in advance for your advice!!
Cheers!!
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